Umm.. yea people are rude to girl gamers. It happens all the time and its not going to stop.. I've been in tournaments where I plowed through the compatition and they continued to talk trash when I'm standing there holding the trophy. You can't gain everyones respect even if your labelled best in the world someone will still say you suck and talk trash.
Some guys have a spaz when a girl beats them.. why?... bc they aren't use to it. Girls really aren't seen as being as good at video games. SOOO if girls want more respect make guys use to losing to girls. Join tourneys, practice, study the game.. then WIN WIN WIN!! Yea your going to have those guys that still give you crap, but just walk over challenge them, beat them in front of all their friends, laugh and skip away.. yes SKIP it makes it worse. Mwahahaha!!
Also I agree with cools.. girls join girl teams/forums/clans so they find more people like them. It's so much fun to walk into a socity domainated by males and win a tournment... but its even more fun to do it with a team full of girls, plus its hardly ever done. Being the underdog and taking home the gold is the best feeling evahhhh!!